I’d love for us to agree as a culture l it’s ok for friendships to end. For many reasons, whether as painful and shocking as what you write here it just because you’ve both grown into who you are and can no longer find a way to be who you were. ❤️❤️❤️
I agree, I think there’s a lot of shame around failed friendships because I think our culture creates a myth of friendships as a thing that only the “right kind” of people can make and keep. Similar to the shame of not having any friends. But yes, it is ok for friendships to end just like it is for marriages and other relationships to end, but it doesn’t make it easier to experience any of those severances.
This just makes me sad. I hate how many people have shown their true colors in the past few years because of some knucklehead politicians. I also hate that racism is such a difficult concept for people (largely white people) to wrap their heads around. Yuck.
I’d love for us to agree as a culture l it’s ok for friendships to end. For many reasons, whether as painful and shocking as what you write here it just because you’ve both grown into who you are and can no longer find a way to be who you were. ❤️❤️❤️
I agree, I think there’s a lot of shame around failed friendships because I think our culture creates a myth of friendships as a thing that only the “right kind” of people can make and keep. Similar to the shame of not having any friends. But yes, it is ok for friendships to end just like it is for marriages and other relationships to end, but it doesn’t make it easier to experience any of those severances.
This just makes me sad. I hate how many people have shown their true colors in the past few years because of some knucklehead politicians. I also hate that racism is such a difficult concept for people (largely white people) to wrap their heads around. Yuck.